15th-Century Mourning Traditions

15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 21:02:15
wednesday\_mc
Could someone recommend sources (online or otherwise) for 15th-century mourning traditions that include royalty/nobility? All I can find online are sparse little, "they wore white," references to European mourning and jumps to Victorian times.

Did Richard -- did any royal or noble -- mourn officially? Did they wear black or white for a specific time, or would Richard have remembered his son/wife in other ways beyond their funerals?

Did anyone mourn officially, or was it "Heigh-ho, the funeral's over, it's back to normal life we go"?

Was mourning different in England than in Europe?

My lame little "Life in Medieval Times" books offer nothing. I need access to a good university library, and the closest is 100 miles away. Failing that, I need six months in London and access to the Reading Room.

~Weds

Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 21:10:32
George Butterfield
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You may find this of interest
http://quod.lib.umich.edu/c/cme/

This is the medieval reference library at The University of Michigan just give it some context and you should find something useful
George

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On Jan 25, 2013, at 4:02 PM, "wednesday_mc" <wednesday.mac@...> wrote:

> Could someone recommend sources (online or otherwise) for 15th-century mourning traditions that include royalty/nobility? All I can find online are sparse little, "they wore white," references to European mourning and jumps to Victorian times.
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> Did Richard -- did any royal or noble -- mourn officially? Did they wear black or white for a specific time, or would Richard have remembered his son/wife in other ways beyond their funerals?
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> Did anyone mourn officially, or was it "Heigh-ho, the funeral's over, it's back to normal life we go"?
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> Was mourning different in England than in Europe?
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> My lame little "Life in Medieval Times" books offer nothing. I need access to a good university library, and the closest is 100 miles away. Failing that, I need six months in London and access to the Reading Room.
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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 21:55:49
Pamela Bain
Great questions....

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On Jan 25, 2013, at 3:02 PM, "wednesday_mc" <wednesday.mac@...<mailto:wednesday.mac@...>> wrote:



Could someone recommend sources (online or otherwise) for 15th-century mourning traditions that include royalty/nobility? All I can find online are sparse little, "they wore white," references to European mourning and jumps to Victorian times.

Did Richard -- did any royal or noble -- mourn officially? Did they wear black or white for a specific time, or would Richard have remembered his son/wife in other ways beyond their funerals?

Did anyone mourn officially, or was it "Heigh-ho, the funeral's over, it's back to normal life we go"?

Was mourning different in England than in Europe?

My lame little "Life in Medieval Times" books offer nothing. I need access to a good university library, and the closest is 100 miles away. Failing that, I need six months in London and access to the Reading Room.

~Weds





Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 21:56:52
EileenB
If I recall kings were not allowed to go the funerals...Eileen

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> Did anyone mourn officially, or was it "Heigh-ho, the funeral's over, it's back to normal life we go"?
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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 22:05:33
George Butterfield
Wednesday
I also have this reference site that combines many sources

http://www.english.cam.ac.uk/medieval/references.php

Hope you find this useful
George

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On Jan 25, 2013, at 4:02 PM, "wednesday_mc" <wednesday.mac@...> wrote:

> Could someone recommend sources (online or otherwise) for 15th-century mourning traditions that include royalty/nobility? All I can find online are sparse little, "they wore white," references to European mourning and jumps to Victorian times.
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> Did Richard -- did any royal or noble -- mourn officially? Did they wear black or white for a specific time, or would Richard have remembered his son/wife in other ways beyond their funerals?
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> Did anyone mourn officially, or was it "Heigh-ho, the funeral's over, it's back to normal life we go"?
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> Was mourning different in England than in Europe?
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> My lame little "Life in Medieval Times" books offer nothing. I need access to a good university library, and the closest is 100 miles away. Failing that, I need six months in London and access to the Reading Room.
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> ~Weds
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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 22:16:20
Jacqueline Harvey
I know that Richard II went to his wife's funeral at Westminster Abbey as he got into a fight with Earl Arundel (who'd arrived late for the funeral and tried to leave before it finished). Richard II grabbed a metal rod and whacked Arundel over the head with it, so that the queen's funeral had to be stopped while the abbey was purified again.
So back in the late 14th century at least, kings did go to funerals.
Jacq

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If I recall kings were not allowed to go the funerals...Eileen



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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 22:22:18
Ishita Bandyo
Good for Richard II!!


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On Jan 25, 2013, at 5:16 PM, Jacqueline Harvey <jacqharvey@...> wrote:

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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 22:25:12
liz williams
Did women go?  I know that at one time it was a male preserve.  Even as late as the very early 50s in riural Wales when my Dad's father died, it was men only. 



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If I recall kings were not allowed to go the funerals...Eileen

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> Could someone recommend sources (online or otherwise) for 15th-century mourning traditions that include royalty/nobility? All I can find online are sparse little, "they wore white," references to European mourning and jumps to Victorian times.
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> Did Richard -- did any royal or noble -- mourn officially? Did they wear black or white for a specific time, or would Richard have remembered his son/wife in other ways beyond their funerals?
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> Did anyone mourn officially, or was it "Heigh-ho, the funeral's over, it's back to normal life we go"?
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> My lame little "Life in Medieval Times" books offer nothing. I need access to a good university library, and the closest is 100 miles away. Failing that, I need six months in London and access to the Reading Room.
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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 22:27:04
liz williams
Where did you read that?  I've never heard it before.  I know I shouldn't laugh but I have this great image of Richard whacking him for being so disrespectful.



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From: Jacqueline Harvey <jacqharvey@...>
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Sent: Friday, 25 January 2013, 22:16
Subject: RE: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions


I know that Richard II went to his wife's funeral at Westminster Abbey as he got into a fight with Earl Arundel (who'd arrived late for the funeral and tried to leave before it finished). Richard II grabbed a metal rod and whacked Arundel over the head with it, so that the queen's funeral had to be stopped while the abbey was purified again.
So back in the late 14th century at least, kings did go to funerals.
Jacq

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> My lame little "Life in Medieval Times" books offer nothing. I need access to a good university library, and the closest is 100 miles away. Failing that, I need six months in London and access to the Reading Room.

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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 22:40:24
Jacqueline Harvey
I love the Richard II/Henry IV period and this incident is mentioned in most of the books on the subject as it's such a great moment (one of many).
If you want to get a good overview of the period I highly recommend The Fears of Henry IV by Ian Mortimer where this is mentioned. Alison Weir's Katherine Swynford (not a novel) is a good introduction to this time, too.
Jacq

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Where did you read that? I've never heard it before. I know I shouldn't laugh but I have this great image of Richard whacking him for being so disrespectful.



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To: Richard III forum >

Sent: Friday, 25 January 2013, 22:16

Subject: RE: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions



I know that Richard II went to his wife's funeral at Westminster Abbey as he got into a fight with Earl Arundel (who'd arrived late for the funeral and tried to leave before it finished). Richard II grabbed a metal rod and whacked Arundel over the head with it, so that the queen's funeral had to be stopped while the abbey was purified again.

So back in the late 14th century at least, kings did go to funerals.

Jacq



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Date: Fri, 25 Jan 2013 21:56:51 +0000

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If I recall kings were not allowed to go the funerals...Eileen



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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 23:12:54
EileenB
Yes...that's correct...so it must have been changed further down the line...Also HT had to watch EoY coronation out of sight...behind a screen or something....rather bizarre really...Eileen

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2013-01-25 23:16:18
EileenB
That's strange Liz...It must have been tough not to be allowed to attend a loved one's funeral...Eileen

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2013-01-25 23:25:32
barbara
For that time period and heaving with delightfully readable information, I
would also recommend Brian Wainwright's WITHIN THE FETERLOCK (the life of
Constance of York) - fictional in the sense of story-telling, but as
brilliantly researched as any non-fiction.
Barbara

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To: Richard III forum
Subject: RE: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions


I love the Richard II/Henry IV period and this incident is mentioned in most
of the books on the subject as it's such a great moment (one of many).
If you want to get a good overview of the period I highly recommend The
Fears of Henry IV by Ian Mortimer where this is mentioned. Alison Weir's
Katherine Swynford (not a novel) is a good introduction to this time, too.
Jacq

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From: ferrymansdaughter@...
Date: Fri, 25 Jan 2013 22:27:03 +0000
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Where did you read that? I've never heard it before. I know I
shouldn't laugh but I have this great image of Richard whacking him for
being so disrespectful.



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From: Jacqueline Harvey jacqharvey@...>

To: Richard III forum >

Sent: Friday, 25 January 2013, 22:16

Subject: RE: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions



I know that Richard II went to his wife's funeral at Westminster Abbey as he
got into a fight with Earl Arundel (who'd arrived late for the funeral and
tried to leave before it finished). Richard II grabbed a metal rod and
whacked Arundel over the head with it, so that the queen's funeral had to be
stopped while the abbey was purified again.

So back in the late 14th century at least, kings did go to funerals.

Jacq



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From: cherryripe.eileenb@...

Date: Fri, 25 Jan 2013 21:56:51 +0000

Subject: Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions













If I recall kings were not allowed to go the funerals...Eileen



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> Could someone recommend sources (online or otherwise) for 15th-century
mourning traditions that include royalty/nobility? All I can find online are
sparse little, "they wore white," references to European mourning and jumps
to Victorian times.



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> Did Richard -- did any royal or noble -- mourn officially? Did they wear
black or white for a specific time, or would Richard have remembered his
son/wife in other ways beyond their funerals?



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back to normal life we go"?



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> Was mourning different in England than in Europe?



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> My lame little "Life in Medieval Times" books offer nothing. I need access
to a good university library, and the closest is 100 miles away. Failing
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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-25 23:56:03
Ishita Bandyo
Was our Richard present at Anne's funeral? Is there any truth about him shutting himself in a room for three days after her death?
To digress a bit, we know Cicely did not go to R III 's coronation.... Or was she hiding behind a screen to watch it? She did not go to E4's funeral either, right?

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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-26 06:56:05
P BARRETT
"Did women go?  I know that at one time it was a male preserve.  Even as
late as the very early 50s in riural Wales when my Dad's father died, it was men only."

And as late as the early 60s in the English midlands. When my (male) cousin died aged 19 I was the only female to attend his funeral. It was looked at a bit askance by the women of the family. Their job was to stay at home and look after his mother. I think it was a matter of preserving dignity, not breaking down in public.

In medieval times it was important to arrange a Mass for the deceased's Month's Mind and Year's Mind, and, if you were rich, lots of Masses. Year's Mind is still kept by some, though you don't pay for Masses nowadays!

Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-26 12:04:43
mairemulholland
Wednesday: I do remember reading that Richard was in black when he rode towards London after the death of the King. If that's any help! Maire.
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> That's strange Liz...It must have been tough not to be allowed to attend a loved one's funeral...Eileen
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> > Did women go?  I know that at one time it was a male preserve.  Even as late as the very early 50s in riural Wales when my Dad's father died, it was men only. 
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> > If I recall kings were not allowed to go the funerals...Eileen
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> > --- In mailto:%40yahoogroups.com, Pamela Bain wrote:
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> > > On Jan 25, 2013, at 3:02 PM, "wednesday_mc" > wrote:
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> > > Could someone recommend sources (online or otherwise) for 15th-century mourning traditions that include royalty/nobility? All I can find online are sparse little, "they wore white," references to European mourning and jumps to Victorian times.
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> > > Did Richard -- did any royal or noble -- mourn officially? Did they wear black or white for a specific time, or would Richard have remembered his son/wife in other ways beyond their funerals?
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> > > Did anyone mourn officially, or was it "Heigh-ho, the funeral's over, it's back to normal life we go"?
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> > > Was mourning different in England than in Europe?
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> > > My lame little "Life in Medieval Times" books offer nothing. I need access to a good university library, and the closest is 100 miles away. Failing that, I need six months in London and access to the Reading Room.
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Re: 15th-Century Mourning Traditions

2013-01-26 15:35:42
Pamela Bain
At least in Texas and Louisiana you can pay for a Month's and a Year's work of masses.

On Jan 26, 2013, at 12:56 AM, "P BARRETT" <favefauve@...<mailto:favefauve@...>> wrote:



"Did women go? I know that at one time it was a male preserve. Even as
late as the very early 50s in riural Wales when my Dad's father died, it was men only."

And as late as the early 60s in the English midlands. When my (male) cousin died aged 19 I was the only female to attend his funeral. It was looked at a bit askance by the women of the family. Their job was to stay at home and look after his mother. I think it was a matter of preserving dignity, not breaking down in public.

In medieval times it was important to arrange a Mass for the deceased's Month's Mind and Year's Mind, and, if you were rich, lots of Masses. Year's Mind is still kept by some, though you don't pay for Masses nowadays!







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